there is an old old song performed by tammy wynette, "Stand by Your Man" which was the theme song for an old old movie "Five Easy Pieces" starring jack nicholson.....both the song and the movie are classics....the two women i photographed here are classics as well.... and both are unusually special women who have "stood by their men"....and rightfully, their men have stood by them..
mirrored here is sally mann following a presentation of her work at the "Festival of the Photograph"...sally showed her large format photographs starting with the original body of work on her children from the book "Immediate Family" and ended with photographs of her husband larry who is suffering and deteriorating from multiple schlerosis.....sally credits larry with being a supportive husband through all of her formative years by sharing with child raising and helping in every way he could with her talented trajectory...
sally's new nude photographs of larry in a state of decline, but also heroic and perhaps oddly erotic and beautiful, reflect both artistry and her way of dealing with personal tragedy....larry and sally have been married for 37 years...i have been friends with sally for about 20 years i suppose, and i remember well her strength and level of commitment for her craft even in those early years ....there is no doubt in anyone's mind sally's major achievement as one of the great photographers of our time...
so, when i went to see her presentation two days ago i expected to see the work with which i was so so familiar....i knew larry was ill, but i did not know of her new photographs....but, the most significant discovery for me , and i think for the whole audience, was her dedication to her husband in such a special way....to turn life into art and art into life is sally's mantra.....and there was not a "dry eye in the house" as sally bowed to a standing ovation in the auditorium on that sultry virginia afternoon...

one day before the ovation for sally, there was another stand up crowd ,above, honoring william albert allard...when the crowd got to their feet for bill, i started to move to the stage to photograph bill with the crowd behind....i took two steps in his direction, and then made a fast decision to stop right where i was and photograph ani, bill's wife of 24 years...i figured i already had so many pictures of bill and very few of ani who has been bill's backbone and support through "thick and thin"...
ani, who bill had met while on assignment in peru 26 years ago, is bill's second wife...ani stayed strong by bill when he was "fired" years ago by National Geographic (see story "family/friends") and was his pillar of strength when bill lost his oldest son scott to melanoma two years ago...ani pretty much stays in the background to bill's "larger than life" presence.... but without ani, bill would be "lost".....i suspect bill is not an easy man to live with...many talented photographers are not....but ani has persevered and was the proudest of all when william albert allard received his due from this appreciative audience....
you should know that the whole festival in virginia just had a good "vibe" all way around....this was an amazing gathering of old friends and new.....a conglomeration of the respectful and the respected....a showing of work finalized and a promise of work to be done....i have several stories to write based on these three days in charlottesville, but as i sat down to write, it just seemed more than right to start off with these two amazing women...
and just imagine what is playing right now on my i-tunes catalogue......